If you have another user with administrator rights, use it to unlock xelsysadm.
If not, then use sqldeveloper to browse the usr table and change the columns "usr_login_attempts_ctr" and "usr_locked" to 0 for xelsysadm user.
update usr set usr_login_attempts_ctr=0 where usr_login='XELSYSADM';
update usr set usr_locked=0 where usr_login='XELSYSADM';
commit;
If not, then use sqldeveloper to browse the usr table and change the columns "usr_login_attempts_ctr" and "usr_locked" to 0 for xelsysadm user.
update usr set usr_login_attempts_ctr=0 where usr_login='XELSYSADM';
update usr set usr_locked=0 where usr_login='XELSYSADM';
commit;